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There are a lot of rules for doing bondage, but here are main Rules of Bondage that should never be broken!

1. Communication. The most important rule of all. Always keep communication open! Make sure you always know what is going on with your Victim. If you do not communicate you will for sure have problems. Every tie is different and works different on every victim so communication is key to learn and progress with your bondage play!

2. ALWAYS have a pair (as in two) of EMT shears with you at all times. They only cost between 3-7$ and easy to find, I get mine from rainbowrope.com. You can get EMT shears from medical stores or pharmacies, Rope or SHARP shears from mountain climbing supply or hardware stores. Also Hook knives are great for cutting rope and slicing off mummification materials. Never do any kind of bondage without having safety equipment on you. It can save a life!

3. NEVER put Rope going across the front of the neck. And personally I never put it going across the beck of the neck either. Also always make sure the rope is not able to slide up from the chest or back because it will end the neck. If rope ends up putting pressure against the neck, it can cause serious problems. The arteries can be constructed and cut off oxygen to the brain. The larynx can be crushed causing serious breathing problems. And rope on the back of the next can put unwanted pressure on the vertebras in the spin.

4. Never cover both the mouth and nose at the same time (mainly for mummification or head bondage).

5. NEVER leave someone who is in bondage alone.

( STATs: Jay Wiseman has collected stories for years and analyzes them. For example, he has investigated bondage-related fatalities (not just someone coincidentally having a heart attack while tied up, but deaths resulting from the bondage) and discovered that in 99.9% of the cases, the tied person was alone when they died. Either because they were doing self-bondage, or because the top left the room. So one of the first rules is: Never leave your partner unattended! Many other serious injuries result from falls, either because suspension equipment failed, or the tied person was standing or walking and lost their balance)

6. Patience. Remember to keep your kool. Either if it is learning what works with tying up your victim and figuring out what works best. It possible the rearranging rope as little as a ¼’ can turn hell into heaven with a tie. Or if there is an emergency. Always keep you head and assess the situation. If there is a problem, can you just untie them? Or should you cut them out?

One Response to Rules of Rope Bondage

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  • Gabriel Pearson says:

    I do a lot of rope work. I do teach it.

    The first thing I would say, is that the key ‘rules’ are very simple, as you suggest.
    1. Communicate – Negotiate, discuss, explain, ask and check – physical problems and health issues are important to know. Above all, listen – Top or bottom, both should be doing that.
    2. Use rope. Sounds stupid, but in all truth, most techniques you will see rely on actual rope being used, not string, twine or wire.
    3. Know how to place rope on areas of the body that blood flows through or where nerves can be pressured. Wrist, ankles, neck and chest are key to consider.
    4. Plan what you are going to do. Make sure you understand the technical nature of the tying. If it is simple or advanced, it should be within your comprehension.
    5. Know where your EMT shears or safety cutters are. Keep them close or on your person. Keep yourself close to the bottom. If you need to step away, it’s time to untie them.
    6. Talk to the bottom, watch their eyes, listen to their breathing, check the temperature of their hands and look at the colour of their skin – Before you start.
    7. In rope, changes can happen quickly – skin colour, breathing, the ability to make sensible statements and be coherent. If the rate of change is quick or if you know they can’t communicate properly, begin to untie. Don’t spend time wondering if you should or not.
    8. Go to workshops. Learn the basics from others who have practised. They will help you to learn good technique.
    9. Do not attempt anything that you know is not in your immediate capability. Ask about it, at workshops. Don’t be afraid to learn from others. They did the same thing, when they were learning.
    10. Taking a picture should never compromise the safety of the bottom.

    Positioning rope around the neck is something that a novice will see in any of the books available, on such ties as the karada (diamond shaped body tie) or in the common chest harness. What is important, is that the ropes do not cut off blood supply or impinge nerves. Books can only show so much. Find a peer rope group and roping friends.

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