CBT By Mistress Cathryn

Male genital torment, or CBT; cock and ball torture. Male genitals come in such a great variety of shapes and sizes. Each male responds differently to stimulation. I have found a few techniques that are suitable for most any male. I will be going into these and addressing more advanced types of CBT in a future issue.

Most men experience limited stimulation or repetitive stimulation and may find these techniques helpful in creating a more vivid sexual life. My man appreciates it when I bind him to the bed with his legs spread wide and his cock and balls exposed. I like to sit between his legs with my toys within reach. I use both hands to caress him all over his crotch. If you are not partnered, I suggest using latex gloves. I want him to feel relaxed and secure. It is important to communicate with him on what is working and what is not. I stimulate all the areas around his genitals with my hands, purposefully not touching his cock. I enjoy using a light feathery touch to start and build pressure up slowly. The hair is also receptive to stimulation. Stroke it, comb it with your fingers, tug on it. I will stroke his balls and capture them with my fingers at the base of his balls. Then I can stretch and pull them gently, slowly building the pressure. I let my fingertips glide over his captured balls, feeling the skin of his scrotum stretched over his balls. Remember what you hold in your hands and remember that he trusts you. Even though this may be a CBT scene feel free to touch other parts of his body. Tit play fits in nicely with CBT so give his nipples some attention when you play with him.

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After a nice relaxing warm up I begin with a 10′ length of parachute cord. Home Depot carries this inexpensive toy. I double the rope and wrap that once around the entire package. Firmly tie this in a simple square knot leaving about 4-6 inches length in the closed end of the loop at the top of his cock. Using your imagination, you can then wrap the two long ends of the rope to secure his cock and balls in a configuration of your choosing. How tight or loose depends on your partner.

Now this cock and balls in bondage are firmly in place for play.

At this point you and your partner may not want to get into any heavier play. If it looks good to kiss and suck then go for it! It will be extra fantastic for him. You can even devise his bondage so that it allows for you to mount him.

If you want to continue his torment, I suggest carefully placed clothespins or clamps on any loose skin you can pinch. You can leave these on and play with them or just leave them on to increase the sensations when you finally take them off. Remember the longer you leave them on the more they hurt when you remove them. You can also try small whips or lengths of rope to whip his cock and balls. Always begin with a light hand. You don’t want to go banging away at his most delicate parts. Also include stroking and squeezing throughout your play.

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Another way to torment him is with hot wax. Using white, unscented candles drip hot wax from an elevation high enough to allow some cooling of the wax as it drops down and onto his flesh. Lower the flame as his tolerance increases. Don’t ever put the flame near the skin. You don’t want to burn him.

Removing dried bits of wax can be a torment in itself. If he is hairy, you will have a much bigger job. A shaved boy is much easier to wax.

These are just a few of the milder types of torment you can apply to your partner. Using found items around your home, you can create many varied sensations to his cock and balls.

Boys like to be stroked, not just stroked off. If you have an open minded, imaginative, communicative partner, you are sure to have fun. Besides, that’s the whole pointim. If it’s not fun then you aren’t doing it right!

Mistress Cathryn