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If you are going buy something to add to your ToyBox perhaps it is wise to buy quality rather than quantity. A flogger with no balance and made from inferior leather that turns to the consistency of dried spagetti after one use is hardly a good investment. "Oh but it was cheap" I hear you say, "and easily replaced". Well after you have replaced it a c
Consensual Slavery - Is it a Myth? John Locke, who defined slavery as a state of suspended war where one person is conquered and has no rights relative to his captor, also said that no one could become consensually enslaved since they cannot give away what they do not own. You can free yourself from a despot at any time by taking your own life.
Webster's dictionary defines communication as "the act of transmitting; a giving or exchanging of information, signals or messages as by talk, gestures, or writing." In a D/s relationship communication is vital. So what are the ways to communicate with others so that needs and feelings can be related, but the lifestyle and emotional well-being of both
I hate articles that give basic dictionary definitions for things that can't be defined in mere words alone, but I'm going to anyway. If we take the meaning of "true" as "fully realised or fulfilled", and merge it with "submit" as meaning "to yield onself to the authority or will of another", we have a concept of a person who has fully realised or ful
The dance of Dominance and subMission is an act of love in my world. It's an acceptance of the roles we choose to live by. For some it is learnt...for others it comes naturally...yet others fall into it for a myriad of reasons. It can be as beautifully simple as deeply complex and to expect any less of a lifestyle such as D/s, would be to do it injust
Thoughts on switching and switches is quite the scandalous subject. Some believe that within this lifestyle, one takes on either the role of the top or the bottom. That there is no way possible for one to switch from a sadist to a masochist at the blink of an eye. They say switching is comparable to those that are bisexual. Being that those who claim
Does love really has to hurt? According to artist David Cata it obviously does. He is a multidisciplinary artist from Spain who recently created a series of works where he sewed portraits of people who have left a mark on his life into the palm of his hand. David Cata's portrait project is both interesting and slightly disturbing, so viewer discretion
The decision to seek psychotherapy is often a major one in our lives. It is filled with anxiety, both about our need for psychotherapy and the therapist him/herself. It is not always easy under average circumstances, and certainly becomes less so when an alternative lifestyle is involved. We recommend finding a kink aware professional whenever poss
Armory Studios announces 7-week fall BDSM course. Participatory workshops open to all experience levels begin September 5. Kink Company performer and BDSM expert Madison Young is partnering with Armory Studios to lead a seven-week intensive BDSM workshop for couples beginning September 5. The fall course, entitled, "An Intimate Exploration of Dominanc
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According to ER doctors, getting foreign objects stuck in your anus is surprisingly common. The items on this list are weirder than most, however. We've gone beyond the "usual" bottles and dildos to bring you these truly bizarre items that have all been found lodged in peoples' bums. Something tells us that they didn't really slip and "fall" onto thes
It is impossible to say who the first people were with stretched ears, or why they did it. Today, many cultures (including our own!) practice the art of ear stretching for many different reasons. Religion, coming of age ceremonies, warding off evil, sexual enhancement and physical beauty are common motivations. However, that just barely scratches the
My girlfriend and I read your site, and I have you to thank for being comfortable enough with my kinks to tell her about my interest in BDSM. She has indulged all my kinky fantasies and discovered some of her own. Our latest adventure has her locking up my dick in a CB-6000 male chastity device. The play/sex has been super-fun so far, but we want to b
When we consider some of the various barbaric practices that were commonplace in the lives of our ancestors, we tend to look at them with a judgmental eye - thinking of them as uncivilized, and downright savage. Most of us would even admit to wondering if our violent predecessors, like those who relished the bloody gladiator games or those who condone
BDSM Events. March 2013. MARCH 2. The Gate (UK). Threshold (USA). Kinky Salon Super-Eros (Holland). MARCH 3. Sadistique (Italy). The Baroness Fetish Retinue (USA). MARCH 7. Texas Latex Party (USA). Club BLack Whip (UK). MARCH 8. Lash (UK). MARCH 9. Impulsion (UK). Club St Andre – Inquisition Party (France). Masqued Mischief Fetish Party (USA). MARCH

New Site Sexually Broken

Intersec Studios announce new site: Sexually Broken. Official launch on Friday July 6th!

Intersec Studios are proud to announce the launch of Sexually Broken, a site that is bringing the hottest names in vanilla porn right now, being bound and dominated by the industry’s leading rigger/handler, Matt Williams. Williams explains, “What separates Sexually Broken from other sites of it genre is it’s unique content. The girls are overloaded sexually, forced to orgasms over and over, with out the brutal SM actives of other sites. No crying, no screaming in pain. Forced deep throating and brutal face facings all while bound. The girls get fucked and fucked well. It is a sexaul overload for the girls, never the fake orgasms you see at other site, but REAL brutal orgasms. The girls are sexually wrecked, and sexually broken with pleasure so intense it alters their minds.”

“Matt is a great artist and we are so happy to have him on board. His style will bring a different aspect to our business which will help it continue to grow and ensure our success in the future,” says PD, founder and figurehead of Intersec Studios.

Matt began his professional career with Insex in 1999. In 2003 he left to direct Hogtied, Kink’s Flagship bondage site. In 2008 he became the creative Director for Kink and its almost 30 websites. While at Kink, Matt created the sites Ultimate Surrender and TS Seduction, and was instrumental in developing Public Disgrace. Now Matt returns to the company that first fostered his creativity, style and atheistic, to create Sexually Broken.

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Whipping As A Punishment - Part One

So easy was a whipping to administer, and so obvious the deterrent it was thought to be, it became the punishment most common throughout the world. On 1530 the Whipping Act ordered delinquents ‘to be tied to the end of a cart, naked, and beaten with whips through a market town till the body be bloody by reason of such whipping’. It was not until the reign of Elizabeth I, in 1597, that culprits were only required to be naked from the waist up. From that time also, the whipping post came into being, for the majority of cases, instead the back of a moving cart. Doubtful the victim benefited other than a stationary target was easier to hit than a moving one.

This punishment was not just for those who committed a crime. Mothers of illegitimate children were punished in this way in the 16th century as were the reputed fathers. Deranged people were whipped for being deranged, ill people for being ill. Blasphemers and drunkards were also constant targets usually with a Whip of Nine Knotted Cords.

Mary Hamilton, alias George Hamilton, alias William Hamilton, who in the guise of a man, married no fewer than fourteen women. Her last wife totally unsuspected until she ‘compared certain circumstances’ with her neighbours Mr and Mrs Goody, then realised her spouse had indulged in ‘vile and deceitful practices. The sentence of the court was a follows: ‘That he, she, prisoner at the bar, is a uncommon notorious cheat; and we, the Court, do sentence her or him, whichever he or she may be, to be imprisoned for six months, and during that time to be whipped in the towns of Taunton, Glastonbury, Wells and Shipton Mallet, and to find security for good behaviour as long as they, the learned judges aforesaid, shall or may, in their wisdom and judgment require.’ Accordingly Mary Hamilton was imprisoned and whipped in the bitterly cold winter of 1746.
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BDSM Adult Adultery

There are many married submissives and Dominants who include their spouses, by passive participation, in their BDSM activities. On a number of occasions there are husbands accompanying wives as they meet a Dominant with whom she wishes to play for the first time. The husband is there for a number of reasons, probably the first and foremost being the safety of his spouse. There are Dominants whose wives not only condones the lifestyle choice but who also are on a best friend basis with the submissive with whom he plays. It takes a very special person to fill these rather large shoes, a selfless person who realizes that they are not in a position to fill a need their loved one has, in some cases a total obsession.

Rather than choosing to ignore the situation and eventually lose the loved one they take an active part in supporting their spouses and in doing so make both their lives richer for the effort. The soul searching that both have endured. The endless questions that both must have asked and answered in their minds and to each other. The human frailties and insecurities faced and conquered. The honesty and trust required. The vanquishing of the greater fear. The fear of losing the person whom you love.

People say in return “Oh he or she is just incredibly lucky”… ah no. Incredibly brave maybe. Accepting of the need of self definitely. But first and foremost an adult. Luck has absolutely nothing to do with it. The submissive or Dominant, as the case may be, actually stood on the abyss of despair, plunged the sword of truth through the beast of doubt and brought their inner most secret desires out into the light for possible rejection by the one person whom they loved. That takes a very special person indeed. It takes an even greater soul to listen and accept they are not meeting the needs of the other. And then to actually do something about it? Want only what is best for their partner.
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BDSM Model Suzy

Unless you’re an adult movie model, have close relations with an extreme movie maker or work in the BDSM adult industry, you pretty much only see models in one light. You never really got to see the real person that is performing these extreme acts and feats. It’s time to get acquainted with the real BDSM model Suzy who starred in the movies for Dr. Lomp website (previously known as Elite Pain).

Q: What is your real name?
A: Suzy is real, but my last name is other of course. :)
Q: How old are you, what is your profession, how do you spend your weekdays?
A: I am 22 years old; I work as a nurse in a hospital. I spend my evenings in a go-go bar as a dancer. On my day off I spend time with my friends and hobbies.
Q: What are your hobbies?
A: I love arts, such as music, painting and the process of creation itself. In my free time I go to concerts and tryouts. In addition I read a lot.
Q: What would you like to work with in the future, what skills do you have?
A: I would love to take up psychology or something human-centered. I speak German, English; also I would like to learn Russian. In the last few years I played in several bands and participated in the creation of some musical web-pages. I also love to write album reviews, interview bands, shoot pictures on concerts. Sometimes I organize them also, alongside with festivals. I love to help amateur bands improve (giving them tips about their album and artwork). Lately I began to write blogs, give fashion tips and keep myself updated in these matters. I am planning to write a book, mainly about myself because a lot of cool stuff happened to me that might interest others.

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Vivien Bianchy is a brand new Hungarian model in BDSM porn. She hasn’t done something like power exchange before. Even more, she had never heard of the word BDSM. Sex with bondage and caning was something she fantasized about but never had the opportunity to experience. The idea of being tortured too excites her. Vivien already debuted on some vanilla websites. But now she decided to learn how to serve her “female master” and get something she never experienced so far. She comes to the casting office of BDSM porn site and learns that there is no a free Mistress now and she will experience everything over again with a male Master. Vivien agrees. She will learn how to be a submissive sex slave and lets her Master tie her, torture her, and fuck her young tight pussy as hard as it hasn’t been fucked before. Some scenes of the lasting many hours session you can watch here.

Master breaks in this busty new girl by incorporating hardcore sex with bondage and caning. Nothing is better than getting a girl for the first time, when she is totally fresh and new to the bondage industry. In the beginning, she struggles vigorously to get free from Master’s grasp but is unsuccessful and exhausted in her attempt. He takes her down and ties her up, canes her lovely ass and feet and works her over with deep pussy fucking. Soon she follows every order she is given. Hands bound above her head, clamps attached to her pussy. She is caned and flogged and she is fucked again. New to BDSM, she discovers that having rough sex and being helplessly bound is erotic and she is a submissive at heart. More videos with Vivien Bianchy you can find here >

Body Piercing

Ring in the nose, chain from ear to nose, ring in the eyebrow, pierced belly button, nipples and tongue piercing, and even clitoris piercing. These are a number of different ways BDSM people choose to decorate themselves.

Though some of these may look interesting and can be seen as a statement of personality, there are many risk factors involved. One of these risks is infection. If the area that was pierced is not cleaned properly, bacteria may get under the skin and an infection could result. If an infection isn’t taken care of immediately, you could get gangrene.

Protect yourself and use common sense and for those travelling the less used routes of Body Modification we hope you are doing it for all the right reasons. The tip besides the obvious don’t go ramming bits of metal through your flesh just anywhere or allowing some idiot that has read four web sites do it either. Because body modification involves breaching one of the body’s main protective barriers, the skin, it brings with it a high risk of infection if done improperly. Risks include hepatitis, tetanus, and HIV, which can lead to AIDS. Less serious local infections can cause illness, deformity and scarring. The risk of infection increases when people perform the body modification on themselves and each other.

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Mummification - Completed Mummy

Whether you’re working with pallet wrap, duct tape, or something else altogether, at some point you’ll have a completed mummy. Then what?

If your wrap is conservative and done with care, your subject won’t be in any discomfort. There will be no rolls digging into the skin, and the overall tension won’t be so great as to cause problems. Combine this with a comfortable temperature, and there’s no reason you can’t play with your new creation for a while.

If you’re working with a duct-tape wrap, you can try cutting holes somewhat smaller than the engorged nipples; when you pull the cotton balls out the nipples should follow. They’ll be snuggly constrained by the small hole, keeping them engorged and sensitive. Bear in mind, though, that the edges of the duct tape can become uncomfortable after a while; if you anticipate a long session, you may want to cut larger holes.

You can also gain access to other parts of the anatomy. A woman’s genital area is particularly easy to work with, thanks to the wrap being away from the skin at the crotch and between the legs. Just carefully cut away a round or square piece of wrap an inch or two across; you can then use a vibrator as shown here… or whatever else strikes your fancy.
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BDSM Holiday Gift Guide

While you’re able to enjoy a 20% storewide discount, with your BDSM Holiday 2011 coupon code, utilize this guide to find that perfect, sexy gift for yourself or your partner. This offer expires December 30, 2011. Please note that the discount does not apply to the gift certificate. Total 25% Savings includes 20% Instant Discount + 5% Rebate Rewards!

Extreme Nipple Clamps

Extreme Nipple ClampsThe purpose of a nipple clamp is to apply sensual pressure to a person’s nipples. This can result in a hot sensation that could get a person aroused and excited. These particular nipple clamps take the feeling of that pressure a few steps further. First off, there are “teeth” on the clamp for that added stimulation. These teeth have just enough to feel the pinch, but they won’t puncture the skin. Additionally, there’s a hole at the bottom so you can attach extra weights. Imagine your partner’s surprise, and potential delight, when you use additional weight to apply constant pressure to their nipples.

Hitachi Magic Wand

Hitachi Magic WandFor over 30 years, the Hitachi has set the standard for personal hand-held massagers. The soft spherical head gives a soothing massage, operated by a two speed switch located on the Wand’s slender handle. Unlike cordless style massagers, the Magic Wand’s strong electric motor is powered using a standard cord/plug, providing a constant power source for those extended massage sessions. Warning: used on the right areas this device can create excessive pleasure! Some women swear that this is one of the best sexually stimulating devices on the market.

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Common Sense In Dom - sub

The bottom line to success in D/s type of relationship is the same as any – common sense. Common sense means you think and apply logic to all you hear. It means you think, and question again and again. You trust your gut feelings. All of that is what common sense is.

A submissive has to remember she is a person with rights and a mind and must use it. A Dom has to remember the same thing about himself as well as the submissive. A woman’/man’s submission and respect is not owed to just any man/woman claiming to be a Dom/Domme.

If you have never taken complete control of another person and experienced TPE, you are not a Dominant. But, you have dominant desires and urges, it is your nature or life experience has made you this way. Since you were not born with the knowledge, techniques, skill and imagination required to take control from a submissive. As a submissive, you have not had the experience and growth required in total surrender of all control and power with a Dom/Domme, you are not ready to take the role on without learning the basics first. Here are a few baby steps you must take without skipping to a first meet and session:

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Basic Duct Tape Mummification Techniques

A duct tape mummification is potentially more stringent than plastic wrap. Duct tape doesn’t stretch and is quite strong, so some care needs to be used in applying it. Done correctly though, a duct tape mummy will be just as comfortable as a plastic-wrapped one, but with less ability to squirm about.

A duct tape (or other tape) mummy begins just like a plastic wrap mummy; this is because you can’t apply tape directly to the skin without causing a lot of pain. (Even if your mummy is a serious masochist and you’re a top-of-the-line sadist, this might be more intense than either of you can handle. If you still think you want to try tape directly on the skin, try a very small (and hairy) area first.

Start the plastic-wrap mummy as described in the article Basic Plastic-Wrap Mummification Techniques. Once you’ve completed the overwrap down to the thighs – the point at which you’d help your mummy into a reclining position – set the plastic wrap aside and pick up the duct tape instead.

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