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Psychotherapy and D/s

Webster’s dictionary defines communication as “the act of transmitting; a giving or exchanging of information, signals or messages as by talk, gestures, or writing.” In a D/s relationship communication is vital. So what are the ways to communicate with others so that needs and feelings can be related, but the lifestyle and emotional well-being of both can be maintained? It is important to find, understand and practice the different ways to communicate, keeping in mind a relationship with anyone should be based on honesty, trust and communication. Communication cannot exist without honesty and trust, and honesty and trust cannot exist without communication. If none of these qualities exist in your relationship with someone, and especially in a blossoming relationship with a Dom/me, then there really can be no relationship.

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Psychotherapy and D/s

The decision to seek psychotherapy is often a major one in our lives. It is filled with anxiety, both about our need for psychotherapy and the therapist him/herself. It is not always easy under average circumstances, and certainly becomes less so when an alternative lifestyle is involved.

We recommend finding a kink aware professional whenever possible. There is a level of depth in D/s relationships that is not achieved in vanilla relationships for the most part. There is a level of communication, a level of knowledge and awareness of your partner that people in vanilla relationships tend to shy away from because it is too intense. You need a psychotherapist that understands this.

You also need someone who does not view BDSM as a mental illness. The last thing you need is someone trying to cure you of your perversion. When you visit a psychotherapist that is not kink aware, you are the expert. The psychotherapist, in order to equalize the situation, may attempt to make you feel as if your kink is a perversion and not a lifestyle choice.

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Seven Week BDSM Course

Armory Studios announces 7-week fall BDSM course. Participatory workshops open to all experience levels begin September 5. Kink Company performer and BDSM expert Madison Young is partnering with Armory Studios to lead a seven-week intensive BDSM workshop for couples beginning September 5. The fall course, entitled, “An Intimate Exploration of Dominance and Submission,” will include a series of intimacy labs, live demonstrations and hands-on workshops aimed at couples and triads — whether mildly curious about D/s relationships or well-versed in the lifestyle.

“This is a really unique journey no matter where you are in your experience,” says Young, who has been teaching sexuality workshops since 2004. “Each class builds on the last, and shows how each aspect — physical, emotional, technique, and negotiation — builds on the others.”

Unlike traditional Armory Studios workshops, the classes are not offered a la cart. Instead, Young has designed a comprehensive program with hands-on instruction, readings and homework. The course begins on Thursday September 5, and happens consecutive Thursday nights through October 17th.

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BDSM Events - May 2013

BDSM Events. May 2013. MAY 4. Threshold (USA). Slaves for Passion (Holland). MAY 5. Maison de Sade (UK). The Baroness Fetish Retinue (USA). MAY 8. DomCon Los Angeles (USA). MAY 10. Torture Garden Boat Party (UK). Bound (USA). MAY 11. Bristol Alternative & Burlesque Fair (UK). Misbehave (Holland). Store Event (USA). Club St Andre (France). Torture Garden Birthday (UK). Impulsion (UK). MAY 17. German Fetish Ball (Germany). MAY 18. Club RUB (UK). Club Lush (Australia). MAY 20. German Fetish Ball (Germany). MAY 24. Fetish Factory 18 Year Anniversary Weekend (USA). MAY 25. Kinky Salon: Erotica Noire (Holland). The Gate (UK). Fetish Prom 2013 (USA). SubRosaDictum, official Party to the BoundCon (Germany). MAY 30. New York Fetish Marathon (USA). Lisbon Fetish Weekend (Portugal). MAY 31. Compliance (UK).

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BDSM Events - March 2013

BDSM Events. March 2013. MARCH 2. The Gate (UK). Threshold (USA). Kinky Salon Super-Eros (Holland). MARCH 3. Sadistique (Italy). The Baroness Fetish Retinue (USA). MARCH 7. Texas Latex Party (USA). Club BLack Whip (UK). MARCH 8. Lash (UK). MARCH 9. Impulsion (UK). Club St Andre – Inquisition Party (France). Masqued Mischief Fetish Party (USA). MARCH 16. Latextrem Deluxe (Germany). Torture Garden March Ball (UK). Swish (UK). Liber8 (UK). MARCH 22. Club Decadence (UK). MARCH 23. Club RUB (UK). Imaginarium VI – To Hell and Back (UK). Club St Andre (France). The Gate (UK). MARCH 29. Fetish Evolution Weekend (Germany). MARCH 30. Fetisch-Traum (Germany). Submission – Twisted Circus (USA).

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BDSM Events - February 2013

BDSM Events. February 2013. FEBRUARY 13. HumpDay Coffee and Pie – Louisville Munch (USA). FEBRUARY 15. Valentines Boat Party (UK). Kinksters (UK). Black Unicorn Valentine Fetish Fantasy Ball (USA). FEBRUARY 16. Ritual Valentine Edition (Italy). Club St Andre – Valentine Party (France). Club Libertine (UK). Club Lush (Australia). Torture Garden Valentines Ball (UK). FEBRUARY 17. Discussion Groups (USA). The Tribe (USA). Submission (USA). FEBRUARY 20. HumpDay Coffee and Pie – Louisville Munch (USA). FEBRUARY 22. Bound Rope Jam (UK). Anitchrist (UK). FEBRUARY 23. The Gate (UK). Kink on the River (USA). Cub RUB (UK). Obsession – Candy Shop (Germany). Northbound Leather Fetish Night (Canada). FEBRUARY 24. Newcomer’s Meeting (USA). Brighton Twisted Market After Party (UK). Xtasia Fetish Afternoon (UK). FEBRUARY 25. Velvet Tongue (UK).

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Tour To The Kink Company

These are pictures taken at adult film sets at the San Francisco Armory. The San Francisco Armory lies In San Francisco’s Mission district. The SF Armory is a massive building taking up almost an entire city block. It is a historic 200,000 square foot reproduction of a Moorish castle that now serves as headquarters to Kink company. There is a forbiddingly high, incongruous, block-sized Scottish castle. It used to be a city armory back in the day, but has been abandoned and disused from the 1950s. Abandoned, that is, until recently. In an effort to raise money, the city decided to look for potential buyers to purchase the abandoned armory building. However, they wanted to find a buyer who would preserve as much of the building’s historic appearance as possible. The winning bidder was a company that, unlike the other bidders, was happy to get a set of dingy, mostly windowless spaces with heavy iron doors, boilers, and lots of attachment points on the wall and ceiling.

The building has been out of official use as an armory since 1978, and has since been acquired by a BDSM porn production Kink company. Started in 1997 by bondage enthusiast and entrepreneur Peter Acworth, Kink company produces pornographic fetish-related films focused mainly on BDSM. Specifically, this company made BDSM porn, and an old castle suited them perfectly. There were some protests from local residents who felt that the company would bring an unsavory character to the neighborhood (a neighborhood, that’s rife with drug dealing and other street crime), but the city government went ahead with their bid.

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New Site Sexually Broken

Intersec Studios announce new site: Sexually Broken. Official launch on Friday July 6th!

Intersec Studios are proud to announce the launch of Sexually Broken, a site that is bringing the hottest names in vanilla porn right now, being bound and dominated by the industry’s leading rigger/handler, Matt Williams. Williams explains, “What separates Sexually Broken from other sites of it genre is it’s unique content. The girls are overloaded sexually, forced to orgasms over and over, with out the brutal SM actives of other sites. No crying, no screaming in pain. Forced deep throating and brutal face facings all while bound. The girls get fucked and fucked well. It is a sexaul overload for the girls, never the fake orgasms you see at other site, but REAL brutal orgasms. The girls are sexually wrecked, and sexually broken with pleasure so intense it alters their minds.”

“Matt is a great artist and we are so happy to have him on board. His style will bring a different aspect to our business which will help it continue to grow and ensure our success in the future,” says PD, founder and figurehead of Intersec Studios.

Matt began his professional career with Insex in 1999. In 2003 he left to direct Hogtied, Kink’s Flagship bondage site. In 2008 he became the creative Director for Kink and its almost 30 websites. While at Kink, Matt created the sites Ultimate Surrender and TS Seduction, and was instrumental in developing Public Disgrace. Now Matt returns to the company that first fostered his creativity, style and atheistic, to create Sexually Broken.

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BDSM Model Suzy

Unless you’re an adult movie model, have close relations with an extreme movie maker or work in the BDSM adult industry, you pretty much only see models in one light. You never really got to see the real person that is performing these extreme acts and feats. It’s time to get acquainted with the real BDSM model Suzy who starred in the movies for Dr. Lomp website (previously known as Elite Pain).

Q: What is your real name?
A: Suzy is real, but my last name is other of course. :)
Q: How old are you, what is your profession, how do you spend your weekdays?
A: I am 22 years old; I work as a nurse in a hospital. I spend my evenings in a go-go bar as a dancer. On my day off I spend time with my friends and hobbies.
Q: What are your hobbies?
A: I love arts, such as music, painting and the process of creation itself. In my free time I go to concerts and tryouts. In addition I read a lot.
Q: What would you like to work with in the future, what skills do you have?
A: I would love to take up psychology or something human-centered. I speak German, English; also I would like to learn Russian. In the last few years I played in several bands and participated in the creation of some musical web-pages. I also love to write album reviews, interview bands, shoot pictures on concerts. Sometimes I organize them also, alongside with festivals. I love to help amateur bands improve (giving them tips about their album and artwork). Lately I began to write blogs, give fashion tips and keep myself updated in these matters. I am planning to write a book, mainly about myself because a lot of cool stuff happened to me that might interest others.

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Vivien Bianchy is a brand new Hungarian model in BDSM porn. She hasn’t done something like power exchange before. Even more, she had never heard of the word BDSM. Sex with bondage and caning was something she fantasized about but never had the opportunity to experience. The idea of being tortured too excites her. Vivien already debuted on some vanilla websites. But now she decided to learn how to serve her “female master” and get something she never experienced so far. She comes to the casting office of BDSM porn site and learns that there is no a free Mistress now and she will experience everything over again with a male Master. Vivien agrees. She will learn how to be a submissive sex slave and lets her Master tie her, torture her, and fuck her young tight pussy as hard as it hasn’t been fucked before. Some scenes of the lasting many hours session you can watch here.

Master breaks in this busty new girl by incorporating hardcore sex with bondage and caning. Nothing is better than getting a girl for the first time, when she is totally fresh and new to the bondage industry. In the beginning, she struggles vigorously to get free from Master’s grasp but is unsuccessful and exhausted in her attempt. He takes her down and ties her up, canes her lovely ass and feet and works her over with deep pussy fucking. Soon she follows every order she is given. Hands bound above her head, clamps attached to her pussy. She is caned and flogged and she is fucked again. New to BDSM, she discovers that having rough sex and being helplessly bound is erotic and she is a submissive at heart. More videos with Vivien Bianchy you can find here >

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