Anal Sex Play

Anal sex (or anal intercourse) include sexual acts involving the anus, including pegging, anal–oral sex, fingering, object insertion, insertion of the penis into the anus of a sexual partner. Anal sex has been around for as long as sex itself. The anus was probably the second body cavity investigated by Neanderthal Man or maybe the first depending on the sexuality of the Neanderthal. The first of all Dominants. Take what he wanted when he wanted. Master of his domain. So, we are at a loss as to when it became a perversion or taboo, something dirty or demeaning, humiliating or forbidden. When the term “Stick it up your arse” became a derogatory remark rather than a term of endearment. Who knows these things?

Anal sex is not exclusively and solely something experienced by gay men; it is very much a part of lovemaking between heterosexual couples. Men and women of all walks of life enjoy anal sex as an alternative to vaginal lovemaking. It’s not for everyone, that must be clearly understood from the outset, but for some anal sex has become an added spice to their erotic play. Yet another sexual experience to be shared between two people. Be it a taboo one at that.

The biggest hurdle some people have with anal sex is one small four letter word “shit”. “Eat shit and die mother fucker”. Yet another phrase we have all heard. “Shit” however actually plays a very small part and can be almost totally controlled although the bacteria cannot be. So the next hurdle would be the preconceived notion that: “It is dirty”. Well probably not anymore than having sex during a woman’s period. Or screwing for two weeks and not washing. Which ever way you look at it we are conditioned from birth against anal play. To understand some of the rhetoric expounded against the act of anal sex we must first look at where it has come from. Religion? Community Standards? Historical Records? Probably all of these things and more.

Satan was often depicted in early woodcuts as a nude figure of strong muscularity disdainfully flipping back his tail to allow his anus to be kissed by kneeling women. Authorities disagree as to whether the orifice is the similar to that of a human or whether it is, instead, the mouth of a second face which Satan wears on his bottom. Puts a whole different slant on “Sit on my face baby”. So we can’t even agree as to whether Satan has an anus.

Contemporary writers and word-of-mouth witnesses constantly speculate regarding the anatomy of demons, paying particular attention to the penis (or penises, since some demons were reported to have had several). There is quite a variation of description regarding the size, shape, composition and location of these penises. According to the testimony of some witches during the Inquisitions, the demon’s tail (barbed in a phallic way) was actually his penis. Others said he had one in front and one in back – presumably to facilitate sex whilst coming or going.

“De Strigimagis”, written by Prierias in 1521, reports that every self-respecting incubus comes factory equipped with a dual penis in the configuration of a snake’s forked tongue. Aside from the Freudian associations here, it would seem that this two-in-one organ enabled the demon to copulate with one penis while simultaneously employing the other for the purposes of anal sex. There are countless references taken from those on trial for witchcraft during the Inquisitions of witches having had anal sex with demons, devils or incubi. The Witch and The Devil in Art. The super deluxe model of demon came equipped with a triple penis – a three-pronged affair similar to a trident. This versatile organ made it possible for the demon to engage in coitus, sodomy and fellation – all at the same time. It has been suggested that the tri-phallus is the origin of the pitchfork which the devil is often portrayed as carrying.

The devil’s complete lack of inhibition in matters sexual and his ability to become all things to all lovers made him a most imaginative bed-partner. One of the most bizarre expressions of lust recounted is by the famous contemporary sexologist, Ludovico Maria Sinistrari, in his volume “Peccatum Mutum”. He states that a succubus of a type which has an overdeveloped clitoris would often use this erect and formidable organ to bugger young boys. It was said that certain matrons of the time who were similarly equipped read the book and were moved to try out the technique on striplings of their acquaintance. It is reported that demons much favour the rear-entry approach or “dog fashion”. It was not simply that they could achieve more thrust and leverage in that posture; they were said to have been prohibited by “the powers on high” from utilizing the man-above, women-below (Missionary Position), a posture reserved for demon-free mortals who had been decently married in church.

Anal sex was very much an accepted way of life during the Roman and Greek eras, especially between males. During the Middle Ages anal sex between men was accepted by the general community. For us of recent times it seemed to start during the antiseptic reign of Queen Victoria, who’s lawmakers couldn’t find a way of broaching the subject of lesbianism with her, which is why it was never included in the same law statutes that made homosexuality illegal in the United Kingdom. The very public trial of Oscar Wilde, brought on by Lord Darwin, and his eventual conviction and jailing for the “abominable act of buggery”. What two words, “abominable” and “buggery”, could describe anal sex any worse? Paint an instant picture in your mind that what was done was worse than murder.

So the point in this limited discussion being there is a lot of ingrained feeling against anal sex which we must over come if we are actually going to partake and also enjoy the act.

Anal Penetration Positions

These are much the same as for vaginal sex. No mystery there. Your partner may have a position where he or she feels most comfortable. Don’t try for the whole Karma Sutra during the first play.

A lot of women like to watch what is happening to reassure themselves. So a missionary position with the legs raised just that little bit higher is good for them. Usually best accomplished by having them do this as close to the edge of the bed as possible that way you can kneel on the floor or crouch for entry. Perhaps place a pillow under the buttocks to raise the angle of penetration. Some prefer not to watch, in that case, lying flat on their stomach with their hips supported by a couple of pillows is good. This enables you to have more control as you aren’t worrying about supporting your weight and both hands are free to guide the cock or open cheeks.

From the stomach position, both partners can roll over on their sides, still facing the same way, with one leg drawn up. This is called Spoons and is a good starting position. It helps prevent the penetrating partner from going too fast, and allows complete control over penetration. It also brings you closer to your partner so you can judge their reaction to what you’re doing. It allows bodily relaxation plus free hands to explore and caress. Entry is easy and fairly deep though movement is somewhat limited. Vigorous thrusting is still easy once you get used to the posture.

Another popular position is for the male to lie on his back, bracing his cock with your hand and the woman straddles his legs and lowers herself onto the erect penis. Either in a forward or reverse position. Be careful the penis cartilage can be torn or sprained. (Dog breeders can tell you all about this.) In this position the person being penetrated has the control as to how much cock actually enters them and at what rate. The penetrator’s hands are free to caress breasts, massage the clit or masturbate by finger fucking the vagina while she slides up and down on his penis.

Rear entry or the ‘doggie style’ is the one position most people associate with anal sex. However, rear entry allows a penis or anal toy to penetrate most deeply, and may not be the best choice for the beginner. This position allows the deepest penetration and permits the receiver to better open the anus for entry. Rear entry doesn’t offer the kind of intimacy or ease of communication that the other positions do, but for more advanced lovers, can offer the greatest amount of thrusting and penetration.

Full front has the woman lie on her back, drawing her knees up to her chest and over the shoulders of the man, who presses down on her face to face. You can place a pillow under the pelvis to raise it even higher, or the man can push the woman’s feet over her head. This position allows for easy penetration and very deep entry.

Bending over is a standing position in which both stand up facing the same way. The woman then bends over at the waist, using a wall, table, or other support. This can also be done on the knees, rather than the feet, at the edge of the bed. When both partners are not of the same height at the waist, some adjustment will have to be made. This position is convenient to use outdoors. Great for over the bonnet of cars. It allows easy penetration and full movement if there is something solid to hold on to.

But the positions are endless… This is totally up to you and you should move around and experiment find which works best for you both. Hopefully if you are considerate and listen, your partner receptive and telling you openly what they are feeling, you will be thrusting away accompanied by deep moans as he or she experiences an anal orgasm.

Be responsible. Don’t cum inside anyone unless you have both been screened, STD free, in a relationship, monogamous and your partner needs, wants, desires the gift of your cum. Of course you would be wearing a condom anyway if these conditions did not exist.